Friday, April 15, 2011

Riding Out Life's Tsunamis

Riding Out Life's Tsunamis

It has been over a month now since a powerful magnitude-9.0 earthquake
and tsunami devastated Japan. The confirmed death toll is over 13,000
and continues to rise. In the midst of all the horror stories are
occasional heroic tales of survival and rescue. One of the most
fascinating is that of Susumu Sugawara.

The 64-year-old Sugawara is the owner-operator of a small boat named
"Sunflower." After the massive earthquake and in view of the tsunami
warnings being broadcast, he had to make a quick decision. Should he
head for high ground on his island of Oshima? Should he put his boat to
sea and try to ride out the fury? His chose to launch his boat and head
for deep water offshore.

"I knew if I didn't save my boat," he told a CNN reporter, "my island
would be isolated and in trouble." So he ran to his 42-year-old craft
that can hold about 20 people at a time and went full-throttle toward
the deadly waves that would kill people whose names and faces he knew.
Then he saw the wall of water.

Accustomed to waves ten to twelve feet high, this one was fully 50 to 60
feet high. Sugawara knew that he and his boat could easily wind up at
the bottom of the sea. He drove straight for it - "climbing the wave
like a mountain," as he put it. And the mountain seemed only to grow
bigger and bigger. There was a huge crash of water over him. Only then
could he see the horizon. He had survived!

Sugawara made his way back to his now-devastated Oshima. For the month
since, he has been a lifeline by making hourly trips to the mainland to
ferry people and supplies. If people can help pay for gasoline, he
accepts money. If they have lost everything and can pay nothing, he
still welcomes them aboard.

I'm no sailor or boat captain. I don't know if the Japanese captain made
the reasonable and right decision on that fateful day. I can only report
and rejoice at the outcome. He lived through the ordeal and is helping
others with a sense of sensitivity to their suffering the rest of us can
only admire from a distance.

Here is the lesson from this story for me: Against my hesitation and
fear, it makes more sense to ride into the teeth of life's challenges
than to run away.

There is a cash-flow crisis. There is an unexpected problem with a
product. A major supplier has failed, or a major customer has bailed.
Some executives kick into denial mode or ball up in a fetal position.
Their companies fail. Leaders steer right into the problem and act with
integrity to name and face the problem.

Or maybe the problem is far more serious. A spouse says the marriage is
over. The police or hospital calls with a parent's worst nightmare about
an arrest or accident. Maybe you get a diagnosis that sounds like a
death sentence. Do you run and hide? Self-medicate with drugs or
alcohol? Or do you steer into the teeth of the storm and pray for
courage you have never had to display before?

"You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which
you stop to look fear in the face," said Eleanor Roosevelt. "You are
able to say to yourself, 'I lived through this horror. I can take the
next one that comes along.' You must do the thing you think you cannot

Rubel Shelly

Rubel Shelly is a Preacher and Professor of Religion and Philosophy
located in Rochester Hills, Michigan.

Sent to you as a courtesy of:
Bob Proctor

Edited by: Lawyer Asad

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