Showing posts with label self development. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self development. Show all posts

Saturday, July 9, 2011

Free life-changing ebooks

Many of my subscribers have been thanking me for the free self-help ebooks I've been giving every few days or so (many more to come).

It makes me so happy to make a difference in people's lives; so in this email, I've listed down the download pages of some of the most recent ebooks (in case you missed any).

I suggest creating a separate folder where you can save all these ebooks. Then you can read them at your own sweet time.

Here they are...

Faith Formations:
http://20daypersuasion.com/faithformations.htm

Evergreen Motivation:
http://20daypersuasion.com/evergreenmotivation.htm

Resolve To Help Yourself Through Helping Others:
http://20daypersuasion.com/helpingothers.htm

Stress Survival Super Strategies
http://20daypersuasion.com/stress-survival.htm

Resolve To Learn Something New Today:
http://20daypersuasion.com/learnsomethingnew.htm

Balancing The 4 Quadrants Of Life:
http://20daypersuasion.com/4quadrants.htm

Strong And Confident Warrior:
http://20daypersuasion.com/confidentwarrior.htm

Prosperity Pursuit:
http://20daypersuasion.com/prosperitypursuit.htm

Breakthrough Exponential Growth:
http://20daypersuasion.com/breakthroughgrowth.htm

Conscious Blitz:
http://20daypersuasion.com/consciousblitz.htm

Happy reading and may your life improve greatly as a result.

Best Regards,
Michael Lee

Brought to you by: Lawyer Asad

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Using Your Inner Guidance System

Using Your Inner Guidance System
By: Brian Tracy

You have incredible powers of mind and emotions that give you timely and accurate feedback in every area of your life.

In this newsletter, you learn how to "tune in" to yourself so you can
make the right decision in every situation.

Using Your Inner Guidance System
We know that the body has a natural bias toward health and energy. It's designed to last for 100 years with proper care and maintenance. When something goes wrong with any part of our body, we experience it in the form of pain or discomfort of some kind.

We know that when our body is not functioning smoothly and painlessly,
something is wrong, and we take action to correct it. We go to a doctor; we take pills; we undergo physical therapy, massage or chiropractic. We know that if we ignore pain or discomfort for any period of time, it could lead to something more serious.

How to Tell Right From Wrong
In the same sense, nature also gives us a way to tell emotionally what's
right for us and what's wrong for us in life. Just as nature gives us
physical pain to guide us to doing or not doing things in the physical
realm, nature gives us emotional pain to guide us toward doing or not
doing things in the emotional or mental realm. The wonderful thing is
that you're constructed so that if you simply listen carefully to
yourself-to your mind, your body and your emotions-and follow the
guidance you're given, you can dramatically enhance the quality of your life.

Just as the natural physical state of your body is health and vitality,
your natural emotional state is peace and happiness. Whenever you
experience a deviation from peace and happiness, it's an indication that
something is amiss. Something is wrong with what you're thinking, doing or saying. Your feeling of inner happiness is the best indicator you
could ever have to tell you what you should be doing more of and what
you should be doing less of.

The Messenger
Unhappiness is to your life as pain is to your body. It is sent as a
messenger to tell you that what you're doing is wrong for you.

Very often, you'll suffer from what has been called "divine discontent."
You'll feel fidgety and uneasy for a reason or reasons that are unclear
to you. You'll be dissatisfied with the status quo. Sometimes, you'll be
unable to sleep. Sometimes, you'll be angry or irritable. Very often,
you'll get upset with things that have nothing to do with the real
issue. You'll have a deep inner sense that something isn't as it should
be, and you'll often feel like a fish on a hook, wriggling and squirming
emotionally to get free.

Divine Discontent
And that is a good thing. Divine discontent always comes before a
positive life change. If you were perfectly satisfied, you would never
take any action to improve or change your circumstances. Only when you're dissatisfied for some reason do you have the inner motivation to engage in the outer behaviors that lead you onward and upward.

Listen to yourself. Trust your inner voice. Go with the flow of your own
personality. Do the things that make you feel happy inside and you'll
probably never make another mistake.

Action Exercises
Here are three steps you can take immediately to put these ideas into
action.

First, listen to yourself and trust your own feelings. If there is a part of your life that causes you stress and unhappiness, resolve to deal with it.

Second, identify those areas of your life where you are dissatisfied or
frustrated for any reason. What changes should you, could you make?

Third, remember that nature wants you to be happy, healthy, popular and prosperous. Any deviation from those conditions is a signal to you that action is necessary.

Edited by: Lawyer Asad

Monday, December 27, 2010

Clarify Your Values

Clarify Your Values
By: Brian Tracy

Decide What You Stand For
What are your values? What do you stand for? What are the organizing
principles of your life? What are your core beliefs? What virtues do you
aspire to, and hold in high regard when you see them demonstrated by others? What will you not stand for? What would you sacrifice for,
suffer for, and even die for? These are extremely important questions
that are only asked by about three percent of the population, and that
small minority tends to be the movers and shakers in every society. What are your values? What do you stand for? What are the organizing
principles of your life? What are your core beliefs? What virtues do you
aspire to, and hold in high regard when you see them demonstrated by others? What will you not stand for? What would you sacrifice for,
suffer for, and even die for? These are extremely important questions
that are only asked by about three percent of the population, and that
small minority tends to be the movers and shakers in every society.

Write Out Your Key Values
When I first began this values clarification exercise some years ago, I wrote out a list of 163 qualities that I aspired to. I think I
eventually came up with every virtue, value or positive descriptive
adjective that referred to personality and character in the dictionary. And I agreed with all of them. I felt that they were all important and I wanted to incorporate every single one of them into my character.

Focus on Very Few Core Beliefs
But then reality sets in. I realized that it is very hard to learn even
one new quality, or to change even one thing about myself, let alone
dozens of things. So I scaled down my ambitions and began narrowing the values down to a small number that I could manage and work with. Once I had settled on about five core beliefs, I was then able to get to work on myself and start making some progress in character development.

Select Your Five Key Values
You should do the same. You should write down the five values that you
feel are the most important for you to live by. Once you have those five
values, you then organize them in order of priority. Which is the most
important value in your hierarchy of values? Which would be second?
Which would be third, and so on?

Learn To Make Better Decisions
Every choice or decision you make is based on your values. Whenever you
decide between alternatives, you invariably choose the alternative that you value the most. Because you can only do one thing at a time,
everything you do is a demonstration of what you consider to be the most important at that moment. Therefore, organizing your values in an order of priority is the starting point of personal strategic planning. It is only when you are clear about what you value, and in what order, that you are capable of planning and organizing the other activities of your life.

Action Exercises
Here are two things you can do immediately to put these ideas into
action:

First, clarify your core beliefs and your unifying principles. Write
them down and compare your life today with the values that are really
important to you. How are you doing?

Second, organize your values in order of their importance to you. Which of your values is most important? Which is second? And so on. Do your current choices reflect this order of values?

Edited by: Lawyer AsadClarify your values: your internal and external culture determines the potency of your customer experience--which influences your ability to cross-sell. ... An article from: ABA Bank Marketing