A Tribute To A Baker
"HUUP...ONE, HUUP...TWO, HUUP...THREE..."Those melodious orders sounded like the commands of a tough marine drill sergeant. However, in reality the man's name was Tom Williams and he was an executive with the Houston
Oilers (of the National Football League) and a world class trainer of
famous athletes -- Earl Campbell, Darrell Green, Mike Singletary, Hakeem Olajuwon -- to name but a few.
During the off season he operated a Kolache shop, baking cookies and
meat filled delights.
Approximately 200 yards from this Kolache shop was his famous "Hill", a
very steep embankment, which led to the bayou. Tom would have his
athletes train on that hill, running up and down to build stamina or to
help rebuild muscles or ligaments damaged after an injury or surgery.
As for me, I had always wanted to be a pro athlete, but early on I
realized that I was not quick enoughnor tall enough to become one, so I focused my dreams on becoming an Orthopedic Surgeon, helping my athletic idols to recover from devastating injuries.
That dream, however, was smashed during my sophomore year in college
when I was seriously injured as an innocent victim of a convenience
store robbery. I was shot in the back of the head, and very few thought
I would even survive. However, many months later, after several
surgeries and lengthy hospital rehabilitation programs, I met Tom, the eternal optimist.
The first day my family and I encountered Tom he was barking out orders for his athletes on the "Hill". He told my parents he could definitely help me, but I would have to discipline myself to work four straight hours every single day, including weekends.
At first, my parents would watch Tom work with me in the back of his
Kolache shop. Tom would cover the tables he would normally use to knead his dough, and now would "knead" my muscles, massage my limp right arm,
and struggle with me as I learned to walk again.
Then, one day, Tom barked, "Mike, let's go to the 'Hill'."
I was scared as I limped toward the bayou, and my parents were equally
petrified. The "Hill" was so steep that I thought even a Billy goat
would have difficulty trying to climb it.
Initially, Tom ordered two husky athletes to lift me under my arms and "drag" me down the hill. When we got to the bottom, one of the athletes screamed up to Tom, "What do you want us to do now?" Tom calmly replied, "Drag him back up."
At that point, my father, who by profession is a rabbi, told my mother
that he thought Tom was going to kill me and they should get me away
from him as soon as possible.
My father, wanting to be polite, thanked Tom and stated that we had to go home. But Tom replied, "It's only 2 o'clock, and Mike is to be here until 5, and by the way, bring him a little earlier tomorrow."
Even though my father was adamant about leaving, my mother truly felt that if Tom could help "million dollar athletes" recover, he could surely help her son.
My father went home, never returning to the Kolache store because he told my mother, "Tom is going to kill Mike," and my mother never volunteered any information to my father about my progress with Tom as the days wore on.
One day, a number of weeks later, Tom called my father at home and said, "Father, this is Tom Williams and you need to get here fast!" With that, Tom slammed the phone down.
My father thought I was dead or badly injured, the victim of a severe
injury while tumbling down that "Hill." He quickly sped toward Tom's shop, jumped out of his car, and noticed many people huddled near the corner of the "Hill." With great trepidation my father peered over the "Hill" and saw me slowly climbing the "Hill" -- alive. When I reached the top of the "Hill" I quickly turned around as Tom instructed me and went back down to the bottom, to the bayou. Tears welled up in my
father's eyes as Tom approached him and said, "Rabbi, you might give
great sermons, but you don't practice what you preach. You tell everyone to have faith, but you did not have faith -- faith in me, faith in your son, and faith in God. You simply said, 'I give up,' and you went home."
My father pondered seriously as to what Tom had just said and watched as I slowly reached the edge of the "Hill" on my return trip. At that moment, with tears of great joy, my father and I fell into each other's arms and embraced one another.
That was just one of the many lessons I learned from Tom over the next few years. Even though I still have many physical disabilities as a
result of the gunshot wound the "Hill" taught me that even the
impossible could become the possible.
Everyone in life has his own "Hill" to climb, some small, some large. On
that day Tom taught me the most important lesson of my life: "Never give in; never give up."
Even though Tom was a world class trainer of athletes, he learned that
his true love was helping "ordinary" people, and soon after my success
on the "Hill" Tom opened a Rehabilitation Center where he worked with spinal cord and head injured and stroke patients. In the "old days," Tom would use only a simple table in the back of his Kolache shop on which he prepared his pastries to help his clients. Now, he had a state of the art, modern Rehabilitation Center along with his own man-made "Hill" so Tom could encourage many more to defy the experts.
Tom received referrals from all over the country for he had a special
ability to make patients want to excel. His patients improved and his
Center was a huge success.
For the next few years I would regularly go to the Center, not only to
exercise but more importantly to work out for the "Master," Tom.
I had developed a strong emotional connection with Tom. He had extended to me a lifeline to enjoy life once again which many physicians and therapists stated no longer existed.
However, later Tom became extremely ill with cancer and passed away. The funeral was huge. Many of his athletes were there to say their last "good byes" and "thank yous." I was an honorary pallbearer because his family thought that our relationship was a special and unique one.
After everyone left the cemetery I went up to Tom's grave to utter my
final prayer and statement of thankfulness that such a wonderful man had been a part of my life. As I glanced at the inscription on the tombstone I read:
Forever Loved In The Hearts Of Those He Touched
April 11, 1927 -- June 11, 1995
At that very moment I realized why we were so deeply connected: April 11 is also my birthday!
by Michael Jordan Segal, MSW
Michael Jordan Segal, who defied all odds after being shot in the head,
is a husband, father, social worker, freelance author (including a
CD/Download of 12 stories, read with light backgroud music, entitled
POSSIBLE), and inspirational speaker, sharing his recipe for happiness,
recovery and success before conferences and businesses. To contact Mike or to order his CD, please visit www.InspirationByMike.com
http://www.inspirationbymike.com/ and please take a moment to check out his youtube video at: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hNeRqpaoNpQ
you will be glad you did.